Situations like this don’t happen every day, and I want to share my story because I can’t decide what to do. My previous marriage was pure torture. 10 years of suffering, tears and pain. I was married to a ruthless man who not only didn’t love me, but also made my life unbearable. I was forced to work, endure humiliation, and my mother-in-law only made things worse.

When I finally left this marriage and returned home, I didn’t expect to receive a marriage proposal… from a neighbor. He is older than me, already has two adult children and even a grandson. He lost his wife, and the neighbors say that he was faithful to her until the end. Everyone speaks very warmly of him, they say that he is a kind and caring person.

Now I am faced with a difficult choice. On the one hand, I’m afraid of being married again, where I can repeat past mistakes and suffering. On the other hand, living alone is very difficult. I don’t want to be alone, especially at my age, because finding a husband is becoming increasingly difficult.

But I don’t know if I should agree? He’s older, he already has his own big family, and I’m not sure this decision will make me happy.

What would you do in my place?